How to save your relationship

How to Save your Relationship

From birth to death we see many relationships like father, mother, brother, sister, wife, husband, children, friends, colleagues etc. Every relationship has its own limitation. Why we fail to understand those limitations?

Parents want children to follow their words. Husband wants his wife only to love him so much. Children expect lot of things from parents. Friendship means supporting each other and list goes on.

Friends, real problem is in our mind. Real problem is our vision to see the things, isn’t it?

Every relationship must be smooth and free. Every relationship must be trustworthy. No one can control other, only we can only love others. Respect others viewpoint.

Don’t expect anything in relationship because expectation always kills. If you expect from your loved ones. If they are willing to fulfill your dreams also they can’t, why?

Expectation take birth in your mind and no one can know about your expectation.

Just ask yourself friends, why you love your mom?

Just because she cares you? Just because she trust you? Just because she cook good food?

You have answer, no. You love your mom because she is your mom and you don’t need a reason to love your mom. You just love your mom. Same way in every relation also, you accept that relation doesn’t look for default cause.

If any misunderstanding, quarrel, fight took place between your partner just convince. Convince in right way. This is the fight of two mindsets. One mind sees facts according to it and another in other way. Both are correct. But we both desperately want change in others, that’s all. Fight begins their itself. Don’t do that. Accept as it is. Feel free to ask sorry if mistake is yours. Because even world is against you, if your partner is with you, if your partner support you, you can win any battle and you will get success. Trust, support and understanding are key factors in any relationships.

Don’t give importance to success or failures of any person, always give importance to relationships.

Thank you friends,

Comments

Blackvillan said…

Hi friends, Share your valuable comment and share to your loved ones

28 June 2018 at 18:27

SUCCESS OF SUCCESSFUL PEOPELE - Motivational article

Success Graph - Motivational article Friends, every one of us have our own role models in life. It may be about their fashion, dedication, passion, decisions, thoughts or leadership skills may inspired us. We follow their path to lead our life’s journey and we all compare our actions with them to take our decisions for right thing. But, have you ever asked these questions with you. “What is the reason for their success?” “What is that quality, which separate them from everybody?” “How they approach any work with 100% dedication?” “How they are so much disciple with their lifestyle?” Life is same for all the creatures. Rain, wind, sunlight all falls on every creature as same and it is same with our problems also. Some people will run from those problems and some people will fight against it. It is those people who win this battle who practiced the art of fighting in every single problem will go to next level. Rich will become richer and poor still poorer

How to stop overthinking | Overthinking|

How to stop over thinking :- “Control your thinking, because thinking becomes your words. Control your words, because words become your actions. Control your actions, because actions become your habit. Control your habits, because habits become your character”. So, this is how friends a simple thought of our own becomes character. It is important to make those thoughts clean and positive one. Unless those thoughts will eat us every day. Think in multiple direction and think thousand times to take action, but few people will spend their most of time in this state. They think lot more than that work is needed. They think negatively about their work and they think as far away from the truth. This type of thinking is known as over thinking. Thinking towards anything is good friends but over thinking is too bad, just because it decreases our motivation level to achieve our goals. This over thinking will tie our mind with strong rope that it will

Bhagavathgeetha

Bhagavathgeetha Bhagavathgeetha is a conversation between Lord Krishna and Arjuna. Here they discuss lot more than life, human duties, what is good and bad? Who is god? What is karma yoga? etc which is relevant to today’s life. It is very vast but I try to explain simple trailer of Bhagavathgeetha in my way. Following are said by Lord Krishna to Arjuna: About soul: Human’s body is made up of water, soil, fire, air and sky. Energy to this body is called as soul. Here Lord Krishna explains God is nothing but Energy. We are all part of that Energy. Our soul can change human bodies when they become old just like we change our cloths. Energy (soul) neither be created nor be destroyed. Soul is not going to kill by any weapon, fire and time. Soul is immortal and human body is like a home to it. Soul has unlimited power but when it enters the body, it forgets all the energy. All surrounded by us is nothing but an illusion. Just for example think you’re playing some vision

Don’t Run, Try Again

Don’t Run, Try Again Friends, many of us think that we will achieve something on someday. Many people imagine their 20 years future plans. All of these people had a fear in their mind about their plans. If they reveal those ideas (take ideas for example Business, inventions, lifestyle etc), they always have a fear that somebody will be benefited by using their ideas, so they hide their ideas with them. They keep on postponing their ideas. “One day will come, I will do this. I do that business and then I achieve so much success in my life. My hope and heart live in my goal. This is my life time goal”. This is not unique thinking friends; Fact is 95% people in this world think like this only. Most people think they live long life, they get success, name, fame, and money etc all is common. But what make you different from others, trust me friends is your actions at right time . If you are thinking something big in your mind then execute it right now, do it now .

Best blogs in the world

Think like a Eagle and Attack like a Tiger Someone can run fast and someone can’t. Someone can fight well and someone can’t. Someone can swim fast and others can’t. All of us have our own strengths and weaknesses. There is no one in this world who knows everything. But we are unable to understand this truth. We allow our one weakness to occupy our centre of life. We struggle, we cry, we suffer and also we hate those weaknesses. In this process we spend our more time on what we cannot do and we forget what we can do. You may have 99 weaknesses but focus on 1 strength you have friends. Work for that one strength, build your strategies, give your concentration, dedication, perseverance and time to that one strength that will turn your life. This world is weak friends and you need only little energy to win the race. Don’t compare yourself with anyone. If you do so, this means you are competing against everyone in this world. Don’t try to become best in this world rather t

Anxiety about going to school | School anxiety |

School anxiety School anxiety or school refusal explains the disorder of a child who refuses to go to school on a regular basis. You may think now, it is most common in all children and it is not so serious thing. But friends, you may have heard the story of elephant and rope. If you are not taking care about this, it will leads to several mental disorders for your child in future. What you feed to your child in initial days matters a lot. These thoughts will firmly fix in your child’s mind so be aware what you feed and how you are giving moral and mental support to your child. Approximately about 1% to 5% of school children have school anxiety and it is common in 5 to 6 years and in 10 to 11 years old. It is because child experience major change in his life for example entrance to kindergarten, entrance to middle school from elementary and summer holidays to school etc. In this article, I am going to discuss about symptoms and signs of school anxiet

Blackvillan

Search This Blog

Top 10 Life quotes