Thursday, 28 June 2018

How to save your relationship

How to Save your Relationship

From birth to death we see many relationships like father, mother, brother, sister, wife, husband, children, friends, colleagues etc. Every relationship has its own limitation. Why we fail to understand those limitations?
Parents want children to follow their words. Husband wants his wife only to love him so much. Children expect lot of things from parents. Friendship means supporting each other and list goes on.
Friends, real problem is in our mind. Real problem is our vision to see the things, isn’t it?
Every relationship must be smooth and free. Every relationship must be trustworthy. No one can control other, only we can only love others. Respect others viewpoint.
Don’t expect anything in relationship because expectation always kills. If you expect from your loved ones. If they are willing to fulfill your dreams also they can’t, why?
Expectation take birth in your mind and no one can know about your expectation.
Just ask yourself friends, why you love your mom?
Just because she cares you? Just because she trust you? Just because she cook good food?
You have answer, no. You love your mom because she is your mom and you don’t need a reason to love your mom. You just love your mom. Same way in every relation also, you accept that relation doesn’t look for default cause.
 If any misunderstanding, quarrel, fight took place between your partner just convince. Convince in right way. This is the fight of two mindsets. One mind sees facts according to it and another in other way. Both are correct. But we both desperately want change in others, that’s all. Fight begins their itself. Don’t do that. Accept as it is. Feel free to ask sorry if mistake is yours. Because even world is against you, if your partner is with you, if your partner support you, you can win any battle and you will get success. Trust, support and understanding are key factors in any relationships.
Don’t give importance to success or failures of any person, always give importance to relationships.

Thank you friends,